Photos of homes, beaches, and events are fine. But there is nothing like a fun family shot. They are all so meaningful and filled with love, laughter, and delight. Of course, this is extra true when kids are involved! Recently, we watched the first baseball games of the season of Andrew and Braden. Andrew is now an "old hand" at baseball, but it is Braden's first experience in an organized sport. He was so thrilled to play. Maybe more than Andrew and Kai ever did--he showed his exuberance at being part of a team. Everyone there was laughing and there was a real feeling of fun and pride. No one cared what the score was, no one cared if Johnny let a ball go under his legs, no one cared if Johnny threw his glove rather than the ball to try to get someone out, no one cared if Johnny forgot to run to first, no one cared if Johnny's "hit" bounced two feet in front of home plate. The kids just all played and the loved ones there just cheered and gave the kids positive reinforcement. If only this approach continued up through the leagues. Let the kids be kids. Let them love what they are doing. Let them make mistakes. Let them think that they are the best player out there. Real life starts soon enough!
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